The Damages Infidelity Causes To Society
submitted: Jul 6th 2008 |
by: AlexArcher
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Today's society is full of images pertaining to infidelity in relationships, from talk shows that bring together fighting spouses and expose their cheating on one another to the popularization of the idea of having a tryst with someone other than your significant other for the purposes of fulfilling some lustful desires. But, the idea of surviving infidelity in one's own relationships only underscores the effects of infidelity on society and how negative they can be.
Statistically speaking, infidelity is a large concern among marriages and engaged couples in today's society. Some estimates say that one in five divorces result from infidelity. Of these, it is almost a half and half split between men and women in regards to who commits infidelity, suggesting it's not just a concern in one gender.
This is a problem that must be confronted if we hope to fix some of the problems facing our society overall. Studies have proven time and again that infidelity and divorce affects more than just the couple involved. Infidelity often causes otherwise stable homes to breakup, which can negatively affect the children in that household for a lifetime.
Often its the children who suffer when a parent is unfaithful. They can have trouble learning to trust members of the opposite sex. Many children suffer from low self-confidence and from feelings of insignificance. Theres a loss of control when a home breaks up that can leave a child feeling insecure. And the child may even grow to resent either or both parents for breaking up their home.
The lasting effects of a divorce can perpetuate into the teenage years of a child's life. The child may quickly become entangled in poor relationships of their own with others, sometimes even falling into what they think is a loving relationship with others. Some children can also become violent, often acting out against their parents and get involved in taking illicit drugs or making other negative life choices.
Children are not the only ones that suffer in a divorce. Many times, the couple that breaks up will become more focused on being more successful than the spouse they just broke up with, leading them often to making reckless decisions or jumping into another relationship, often times with the person that they committed the infidelity for the purposes of making themselves look better off.
Sadly, infidelity often leaves everyone involved emotionally vulnerable and unable to make the best decisions for themselves. Its these strong hurts that run deep that cause people to be more and more reckless and often result in people trying to hurt each other emotionally. Perhaps instead of the knee-jerk response to infidelity of breaking up an otherwise loving relationship, it may be more reasonable to remain and try and work through those issues that led to the infidelity in the first place. The relationship might be able to be salvaged. The end result might even be a stronger relationship. And the process will teach the children how to deal with problems in a healthy manner.
There is an organization called the Affair Recovery Center that can help people with dealing through cases of losing a relationship due to infidelity. Many times, counseling can help deal with the emotional strife that results from the ending of a relationship, and can also help those who are in a relationship where one party committed infidelity reconcile and possibly heal their marriage. Such counseling can help minimize the effects of infidelity on society, and can help reduce the negative effects infidelity can have on a family as well.
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