One Night Stands and the Pick Up Artist II
submitted: Jun 11th 2008 |
by: VinDiCarlo
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First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.
You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.
However, there are LOTS of horny women moving around the clubs and bar anytime of the day that are open in getting lay that same day or night. And all you have to do is have a knowledge and ability to spot them.
I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a reason.
The general reason is that women wants an attention and be approach. Although this isn't always be the reason but a a lot of time it is the case.
Another thing that you can spot that a woman is looking for attention is when she is being so loud and animated.
Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you'll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.
These are what women do in order for someone to notice and approach them.
Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.
You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple "hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.
The key here is not to openly discuss getting in sensual or that you are looking to take her home. You see, if you talk about that, you'll put her on the spot and make her agree to bang with you, implicitly.
Instead you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This is against her "rules" and will force her to keep you at a distance. You're also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.
The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.
Just enjoy yourself while escalating appropriately and have a willingness to control the situation.
This is how it will works although it may sound that counter intuitive.
You have to believe that women wants to have sex and a lot of women in the place wants to have a fast getting laid down.
Some won't and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.
You don't want to invest a bunch of time with the wrong girl, or worse, to pick the RIGHT girl, and then mess it up after a lengthy interaction.
It's not worth wasting your time for that.
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