How to Manage Your Time when Meeting women - Part 2
submitted: Aug 1st 2008 |
by: VinDiCarlo
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Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
There's a syndrome that I call a "doofus dad" syndromeThere's another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are "better."
You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.
But here's the thing - you won't be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.
After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
Women can't be pulled to what they already have. You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me.
I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don't spend more time that you want.
Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.
Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I'll have to take up in another newsletter.
It's a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
You should think that women aren't property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
You can't "keep" a woman by investing all your time with her.
I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you're willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It's either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
If you are in the mental habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you, you will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first.
That's why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And no, we don't try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you'll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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