How to Make Meeting Women Fun and Easy - Part II
submitted: Jun 15th 2008 |
by: VinDiCarlo
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There are three reasons for this.
The first reason is may be new to you - being socially proactive.
As I can remember, I don't have a pectoral muscles - (the one that is right at the top of your chest just under the clavicle that makes the chest look bigger) before I started lifting weights.
Although I have but it was so small and weak and it took me three weeks to notice them. I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms every time I worked them out.
Then I can now handle the big amounts of weight right after I have reached the tripping point in the development of my muscle. The mind is in that way too.
You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to the level of your skills. Because developing a new neuro-pathways will take time.
The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is too much to do or learn when meeting women.
This is actually a little different from "fatigue." It's more like feeling overwhelmed.
When you feel overwhelmed by something, it can frazzle your mind, and lead to a sort of depression, or discouragement, which may feel like exhaustion if you're not deeply aware. It's like your body is saying "ugh, it's too much work. I give up before I can even begin."
This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.
It was daunting to think that I had to DO all this stuff just to have quality women in my life.
The last reason why you feel socially exhausted is when you spend much mental energy and focus on stuff that isn't helpful to pick-up.
Many men fails in attracting women and in fact almost 99% of men gets it wrong. Usually the women can't tell because most men after a harsh rejections learn to keep their inner "stuff" to their self.
But this doesn't deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.
Think about the messages we get from the media, our parents and friends, and women - it's the man's role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN sex from her.
Ridiculous!
I see some advertisement of a guy bungling around to a cute girl trying to impress her, and looking like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better because she is woman. - I hate that kind of thing.
Ok enough ranting... the point is that most guys are screwed when it comes to being in control of their dating lives.
But everything will absolutely change if the guy will only takes time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction.
Once you get to highest level of your interaction with women, you will truly be attractive to them. You just need to be at your best both physically and emotionally.
A MAN AT HIS BEST.
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