Helping Lonely Hearts via e-Mail
submitted: Jul 30th 2008 |
by: ChaszeySandhriel
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There are millions of people looking for their true love on the Internet. The challenge is that many feel intensely frustrated with the process. These love sick people are meeting all kinds of wrong people, or even worse, they're not meeting anyone at all. That's why many of them are turning to Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel.
Chaszey says: "Most people don't realize that what they truly want in a partner contradicts who they are themselves at the core. They are one thing and desire another." She adds: "The beginning of successful Online dating starts with a profile that is unique because it projects the strength of who you are, because it shows your most authentic Self and because you are honestly communicating who you are really looking for in a partner."
A successful profile can be put together remembering these three important steps:
1. A great screen name Many forget that screen names like "ServeThisGoddess," "Stud4You," or "BrokenHearted" may backfire big time. Don't try to communicate too much and definitely don't create screen names that allow the reader to read too much between the lines.
2. Photos that work "I look at dozens if not hundreds of photos a day and I am amazed at the choices people make when they upload their photos to the Internet. They don't realize that their main photo is leaving a first impression," Chaszey says. Most of your photos, especially your main photo, should not cover your face with sun glasses or a baseball cap. This is not the time trying to impress and communicate to your potential partner that you're a football fan or a baseball fan. Photos that work show your face and your eyes clearly. Include a variety of photos ranging from headshots to full body shots (even if you're overweight or uncomfortable).
3. Your profile Be concise, authentic and open when describing yourself. I have talked to many men who told me that once they went out on a first date, they discovered that the profile of the woman they went out with was actually written by a girlfriend, who meant well, I'm sure. However, it left these men wondering who they really were on a date with and they lost faith and trust. I cannot stress how important it is for you to get clear about who you are and for you to accurately state who you are and what makes you tick in your profile. You are not trying out for an essay contest, you are communicating to the world that you are ready to find your true love and you are calling him or her to you with your profile. This is the time to be downright honest with yourself and the world so that you have a chance to attract a person who knows who you are from the beginning.
4. Clearly describe the partner you want to attract Everyone wants a "good woman" or a "great guy" but this doesn't mean that your profile needs to sound like you're looking for a Stepford wife or Prince Charming. Too many adjectives can result in people tuning out about what you're really looking for. Perhaps you may want to try to describe how this person makes you feel or what you as a couple would do together. Write this part as if you're talking to her or him directly.
Chaszey Sandhriel is the Nation's number 1 Online Dating Coach and helps Daters create outstanding results. Visit www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call 415.419.7952 to get in touch with her.
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Before you make public your profile, visit Chaszey's website for additional insights that will help you get amazing results. Or better yet, work with her directly and let her guide you through this exiting and fun process.
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